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Small things teach a lot !!!

Memories are nothing. Memories are everything. But memories are something. Is it? If we have memories about something or someone then today it just gives us the overview about that thing. Not the exactness. It doesn't give us the accuracy. On the basis of past memories about something, we judge them in present. This is what we people exactly do. But this is totally wrong. If we meet one stranger and whatever we'll do, it is based on only present situation. This is what we have to do. If I delete means I forget all memories regarding to someone and meet him/her then whatever I do is only depend upon what his/her behaviour is today. I cleared this concept more by watching video. If you have more bad experience about someone then we definitely do some negative. So before doing something, delete your memories. If we act depend upon past memories then it leads to sometimes happiness and sometimes distraction. 

Natural tendency of people like me !!!

Why I used word 'me'? Because what I am going to tell you is also the tendency of mine.  So why should always start from others, start from ourself is good. We always compare us with others. From childhood our parents used to compare us with our brothers, sisters, neighbours etc. Every individual is a part of comparison these days. Why we do this? If my friend has this thing then I also want this.  But do I really want this? Answer from most of the people is NO. Then why we always compare ourselves with others?  Only to achieve status, fame etc. We can achieve these all things some or other day but by doing comparison we never achieve happiness that we really have to live stable in this world. If we didn't run behind what others do but we did whatever we really want then we'll get inner peace which is the real success, which is the real happiness.  With this happiness only we make victory over world. So stop comparison.